Monthly Archives: November 2005

For the e-Dating Types: Some Tips

Look, everyone on the e-dating systems is taking a chance by putting their faces/profiles out there. Stop being a bonehead and saying, “I can’t believe I’m doing this…” or “I don’t have a lot of faith in this…” If not, then don’t!
We all find it a little weird, all right? In a perfect world, we’d [...]

You are Who You Love (?)

When I was a precocious teen, I was a pretty big fan of Ayn Rand’s books. In reality, her writing’s pretty black-and-white and doesn’t have those subtle shades that a great author should have, but that’s not the point.
The love relationships in her novels (Fountainhead, Atlas Shrugged) had profoundly influenced my idea of what love [...]

Whew, that was sudden

So, my big brother was all-of-a-sudden released from the trauma ward AND the hospital today, which is great news. I think he’s getting a reality check now as to how badly he was hurt, since the moron was talking about going into work on Thursday, but then got his ass kicked just walking down the [...]

Real Life Intrudes

I ride a scooter. Some of you may know that. Think Vespa, think urban goddess.
Or think victim waiting to happen, if you must. My brother also owns a scooter. Last Wednesday night, he failed to see a stop sign, blew through it, and was hit by an SUV. He’s in the trauma ward still, with [...]

Being Good But Behaving Badly

Despite the onslaught of winter here in Vancouver, I took a nice long bike ride by the river yesterday, capitalizing on the selfdom-seen sunshine while I could. On my way back through the industrial lands along the river, a large delivery truck passed me by. Its paintjob dominated by dirt, I saw a message scrawled [...]

Kissing: Oh, So Telling

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New feature: The Sexipe!

Food and sex. Fuel and the combustion engine. Mac and cheese. Some things are just go together.
Food has been associated with sin and sex ever since Adam and Eve got evicted from the Garden of Eden for swiping an apple. If you’ve ever had a caramelized apple pie, you know Adam and Eve made the [...]

The 30-Year-Old Virgin

I posted a question from someone a long time ago, who wanted to know if a sex life was out of reach now that they were past 30 and still a virgin. I’ve recently heard back from her and life is going better and she’s getting in touch with her inner sexy vixen, and that’s [...]