I enjoy your writing and think that your blog is a valuable contribution to the whole plethora of ‘adult’ blogs out there.

Your style is so different from mine, and that’s also why I like yours. So don’t ever stop writing your blog!

I’ve linked you to my blog for about a week now, so feel free to come and visit. There may be a few people that I’ve linked to that you know, at least virtually :)

Best!
tsb

T — Life is the funnest ride there is. And spooky, full of surprises. I love documenting mine. Thanks again for those great comments on yer site. :)

Flint — Nice! Good idea, keeping notes handy. Mr. Diligent, you. Thanks for the compliments, too. :) And no half-assing in my bedroom. I love the whole ass.

Many times to me the process is what is the story and not the result… this process that you went thru, and might still face, is very fascinating… the human questioning of its complexities!!!

Tony
PS and yes the word was exquisite, and there was no puffery!

Women letting ‘emselves go is epidemic right now. We need to stop that shit. I know, I’ve been there, and I still go there sometimes. It’s just no good. If you let yourself go, you lose sight of what makes you strong and sexy.

My own mental hammering has been going on and has really affected my life as a sexual creature.
(not to mention that extra 10 pounds from quitting smoking a year ago!)

I can remember going out and bring the boys home whenever I felt like it, and NOW?

eh…couldn’t be bothered…seems more trouble than it’s worth. Though they don’t seem to think so!

I need to try harder. I need to reclaim that, I think.
Watch out world, I’m considering sort of maybe…I think I need a new outfit.
:)

YEAH! Absolutely! That’s an awesome way to go, for sure. Having the whole visual/demonstrative approach can be really, really good, but talking about it might also let her explain to you WHY it feels good, and having that knowledge can be infinitely useful, too…

I’ll definitely be attacking this subject a few times, in different ways — including giving some questions every lover should ask their partners. Stay tuned. :)

So is it okay to ask questions that don’t require a verbal answer? Like, show me where? Will you tell me when? How? Etc.

Virgie — Talking rocks. That’s a MAJOR thing with me. That is the NUMBER ONE thing I think is wrong in the sex lives of Americans, and/or any other nation like ‘em.

Laurie — Tee hee! Thank you. :)

Fig — No, it’s a government thing sponsored by the Church, so yeah, complicated but fuck ‘em. I just can’t compromise this early in the game. Maybe down the road, I might have, but the money would need to be MUCH greater in number. Jesus. Pie-in-the-sky, right? Thanks, Fig, you rock too. :) Thanks for the awesome linkage.

Bill — That was interesting! Thanks for coming by. Heh.

Always Aroused — A good assumption, but the wrong assumption to make… Talking’s the only way to really know. More on that later, but thanks for the comment. A surprising amount of people go the same route, and while some of their judgment is awesome, a lot of it is way off, too. Like I says, more on that later.

Phaedrous — I read a bit of your blog and was incredibly touched by the sadness and openness and immediately gave you a link on here. My best wishes to your wife’s recovery, and I hope you have the strength to live through this. I’ll be sure to come by and comment on your site when there’s more time, but yeah, I’ve linked you so I make it back.

Goose — Thank you. My family’s getting better to the point where we can all sustain ourselves and I no longer have to max myself out for my bro. WHEW. But thanks so much.