There is no part of my body that better acts as a go-directly-to-“go” beacon than my neck. A pair of lips and some teeth and tongue on it just sends me into the stratosphere.
I’ve kept my hair short for three or four years now, and I’m hesitant to grow it any longer than my jawline [...]

Do NOT floss or brush your teeth before performing oral sex. If your gums bleed, it can really increase risk of transmission/infection. Do not re-use anyone’s dental floss. Do not share toothbrushes. Do not share razors. Seriously. But before you get paranoid, read this list of how you cannot get HIV/AIDS, all right? Folks with [...]

I’m always talking about how important communication is.
I always hear from women who are complaining that their lovers don’t do what they like, or from men who wish they knew what their women want. It goes both ways. I think the biggest problem tends to be, though, that a lot of women feel [...]

I’m thrilled to announce that I’ve just gotten a glowing review from the incredible Jane’s Guide. I feel like a proud mama! Woot!
They said:
This journal is sort of a combination of personal diary entries and how-to articles related to sex. Steff is a confident woman that approaches sexuality in a pragmatic and mature fashion, but [...]

Welcome to my headache. I’m transferring all my “best of” posts to the Smut site, so if you’re being redirected, don’t freak out. Advertisers care about hit counts, so, I’m being pragmatic and putting my archives where it counts: in the future, and not my past.
So, no worries, everything will be preserved. You can still [...]

It’s that time again– Sugasm! I’ve missed the deadline for submitting for this week AGAIN. Man, oh, man.
It’s a concert night tonight. I get to see a good gig, but it’s the sit-down variety, and that has me bummed. Literally, too. What’s my ass supposed to do when they get their swing groove groovin’? Just [...]

If you’ve missed the bulletin, I have a new blog which is due to be replacing this one. Please update your links accordingly — it’s much appreciated. It’s found at www.smutandsteff.com. Most of the content from here will gradually be moved over to there. It’ll take a while, though. (If anyone’s written a program to [...]

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Subscribe at will, and have me delivered to you… daily, sometimes! Gosh. Just think. Why, it might even be just too much for you. Possibly. No? Well, then. Have at me. Click over there. >>
Visit SmutandSteff.com to read the three years of archives. I need site traffic [...]

It was suggested that I might want to write about the Dove Campaign for Real Beauty.
I’ve thought about it off and on for a while. The phrase “It’s not personal, it’s business” keeps ringing in my head, though, because this, baby, is business.
First, the campaign is brilliant. I relate to a lot of what it [...]

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I’ve always been a tomboy.
When I was a kid, my most prized possession was my cowboy boots. Yep. I still remember the rage I felt that provoked me to take the extreme step of yanking off one of my beloved boots and hurling it across the yard at Devon’s head, when we were 8 and [...]