Monthly Archives: November 2006

Cracking the Kid Rock Divorce Nut or Something– My thoughts.

Sorry, folks, I just haven’t got much to say about anything these days — kind of in emotional hangover period after what was a pretty wild ride for three weeks, and I’m taking a little ‘who am I’ self-discovery time, during which writing’s just not working. I’m good, I just don’t feel like appeasing an [...]

Stop Me Before I Do Something BAD!

Making news around the world today is the tasty morsel that UK coppers are compiling a database of the 100 people most likely to commit murder. This is the “Homicide Prevention Unit” in London’s force.
I understand certain aspects of why this is a good crime-fighting tactic. I just worry about any court of opinion where [...]

It’s Nipply Out There!

It’s cold out there today. It’s cold out there every day these days.
It’s a lazy Monday off for me. I never work Monday, and this one is particularly well-timed. It’s been snowing now for almost 48 hours. Temperatures have plumetted. Buses are going off the roads, cabbies are stuck in drifts. Rivers are bubbling with [...]

Stumbling Towards Dating

I wrote a posting not too long ago, I guess, about wanting to get back to dating, et al. This was around when all the shit came down with my dad, so I’ve had a lot of time to think about things since.
A reader had commented something to the effect of, “Yeah, I hear a [...]

Of Locks That Lick

My hair has jumped the shark.
I knew it was coming. I knew I was approaching the no-go zone, that point at which it becomes unkempt, unsightly, and, yes, even unhip.
I thought I’d heard a giant splat on Monday. It must have been my hair belly-flopping in the pool of cool. Done, man. Done like dinner.
This [...]

Happy Thanksgiving, Yanks :)

Happy Thanksgiving to all my American readers, wherever you are.
As a Canadian, I’m long since done celebrating my Thanksgiving. We celebrate it the second Monday of October, which was October 9th this year. My understanding of why we do it so early is because it coincides with the ending of our harvest, thus is a [...]

Marriage, Philosophy, and Sugasm #55

Life has thrown me yet another hurdle, and I’m presently percolating, just taking it in and figuring out my next step. Despite all the stuff that’s going down, I’m much more even-keeled than I’ve been in a year or two. I’m sure it’s being off the pill that’s making me better able to process events. [...]

Show Me the Pussy Redux: I like Selling With Sex, BUT…

I did a thingie-thing on Show Me the Money, the blatantly sexual and sexist new gameshow. Someone commented that I should let it go, ‘cos sex has always sold, and it’ll never change.
So, you misunderstand me. I don’t care that they’re using sex to sell. I know sex sells. I count on sex selling. I [...]

Playing the Game and Taking Chances

I have had a hell of a couple of weeks, and I’m glad things are going much better. My dad should still be in the hospital this coming week, but he’ll be home in the next 10 days or so.
I’m giving myself a slack weekend, and then I’ll be getting cracking, back to work on [...]

RANT: Show Me The Pussy!

Oh, wow. Just wow. Just when you thought primetime gameshows couldn’t stoop any lower. Have you seen Show Me The Money? I bet you haven’t. And you know what? That’s really okay. It will be minutes and minutes of your life that you will never get to live again, and that’s a price far too [...]

Just Checking In Again

Wow. Ever notice after a great period of stress, that when you’re finally able to relax, you’re just wiped right out? I am! I’m e-x-h-a-u-s-t-e-d. Whew!
But that’s because I know I don’t need to worry about Pops anymore. Saw him yesterday and the dude looks 15 years younger! His hair’s gone all grey now, which [...]

All good on a good day

Hey, peoples.
Checking in again. There’ve finally been some positive developments on the Dad Front. Reports indicate the battle of the bad bacteria is being won by a triple-hit of broad-spectrum antibiotics. Infections appear to be retreating, but it’s too soon to tell if the revolt is going to settle entirely, or if the battle will [...]

All My News That’s Fit to Print

Hi there, my good people.
I’m hunkering down for a storm that’s just now beginning to rage, and rage it will. Winds shall break 120 km/hr tonight. I think that’s 85 miles, for you metrically-challenged Americans.
It’s stormy nights like this that I enjoy not being single. Which I’m not. I’m single, not not single. Still. [...]

Hey, Look! An Election!

As Canadians, most of the people I know were obsessed with the voting returns last night. I applaud the new Democratic House and I’m curious to see what the next couple years will be like. I’m also happy to see a female Speaker of the House. Wow. There’s a neat change in the U.S. Go, [...]

(FYI: My father’s taken a turn for the worse. Intensive care, life support. The news looks bad. I don’t know if he’ll make it through the next few days. This blog is not a priority, but it can be cathartic. I don’t suspect I’ll be a barrell of laughs for a bit.)

Book Review: Nina Hartley’s Guide to Total Sex

The good people over at Penguin’s imprint Avery have been so kind as to send me Nina Hartley’s Guide to Total Sex.
Hmm. A book on sex that features raves on the cover from Margaret Cho and Penn Jillette? Hmm, indeed. I wouldn’t exactly list Cho & Penn as two of my sex idols. In moments [...]

Alone

My religion is well knownto those who know me.I believe in bodies,arms entangling and untangling.I believe, and I know it to be so,that there are so manycurves and hollowsin a single bodythat none of uscan come to know them allwithin a single lifetime.I believe in one [...]

Citizen Steff Against Violence Against Lovers

According to a recent study by the UN’s World Health Organization, the greatest threat to a woman’s safety and life is her partner.
The irony is, most of us claim to feel safer when we’re involved. Nothing quite makes the cold, bitter world outside fade away than the comforting arms of a man. But the facts [...]

Some Thoughts On Trust

As is usually the case when life throws me a curveball, I’ve been taking some time to reflect on things this morning. I’ll be seeing my father on Sunday and I’m hoping things will clear up sufficiently that he doesn’t need to lose his leg to this. He needs a good scare to help him [...]

Taking A Couple Days

Maybe my mindset will settle down, but it might not. I’ve gotten a disturbing call, my dad’s in emergency right now. I’d written a posting earlier in October saying I had concerns about my dad’s health. He had festering wounds — weeping ulcers — on his leg, something every diabetic needs to be terrified of [...]

Sugasm #52

I’ve got the mid-week blues. Waking up alone is so much colder in the winter. In the summer, it’s fine. Y’know, it’s hot, you’re sweaty anyhow. A little space doesn’t hurt, right? In the winter, it’s freezing out, and if you’ve got hardwood floors like I do, you know the moment your feet hit the [...]