Also, I’ve recently realized that this may have caused a sort of “problem” (*tongue in cheek*): I’ve never been able to get off (at least not often or well) from external stimulation (e.g. oral and the like), only from internal penetration of some kind… I thought I was just wired oddly, but, as my current theory goes, it turns out that I’ve become so good at kegel contractions that anything else pales on comparison. Maybe I’m wrong. But, either way, my sex life and my orgasms are far better when I utilize those “pelvic floor muscles” to their fullest extent… ;)

ALso, I do work out regularly (I’m a dancer, so I gotta keep those muscles working), so I can definitely sympathize with the diminished vocab after a rough session… but I promise that eventually, those aches turn into little trophies of “ooh! I worked that muscle GOOD!” that you actually begin to like rather than despise. Yeah, it’s “ow” in the meantime, but think of the glutes a few weeks down the road.. ;)