Monthly Archives: February 2008

Stopping the Whirlwind of Change for a Moment

This growing up thing sucks. I’m spending my morning on yet another aspect of my Year of Getting Shit Together. Today’s fun menu includes finances.
I’ve been on the phone dealing with some old debts I finally need to face up to, and I’m waiting on a call about a tax deductible retirement savings I need [...]

Of Bad Muscles, and Bad Ideas

Welcome to my world of pain. In it, we say “ow”. “Ow, that fucking hurts”, and “Ow, when will this stop?”
Things like that. Meet the right side of my neck. Its postal code is 0w0w0w.
I don’t know. It’s all the exercise I’ve been getting, I guess, and my neck’s all fucked up for the fourth [...]

Gettin’ My Move On!

Ahhhhhhh… spring! It’s a-comin’, sweet-cheeks!
I think we’re on the verge of one of the driest Februaries I can remember in my lifetime. Lots of sun of late, which has been much-loved for me, considering my scooter has been near death of late — so bad I’ve been having to push it up the big hills [...]

A Duet about Sex in Spring and the Strangeness of Circles

It’s funny. A reader’s giving me shit in a comment a couple posts below because I’ve said I’m undersexed and he/she seems to think I’m asking for sympathy. Um, no. Anyone can get laid if they set their standards low enough, right? God knows I know this.
I said in the comment that I’m aiming for [...]

This Week’s Status Report on the Steffs We Know

The West Coast is starting to show the beginnings of spring. Crocus leaves have shot up with the flowers days away from following, buds have appeared on cherry blossom trees, and the perfume of early flowers can be caught on some chilly winds.
It’s great. It’s light before seven, and almost until six. Soon it’ll be [...]

God Says Thou Shalt Screw Daily!

People probably think I’m anti-religion. I’m not. I don’t think it’s right for me. I have faith, I have beliefs, and I have a very strong moral code. They’re not exclusive to religious types. Problem with religion is, it’s run by men, and I usually take issue with the stupid rules of man intervening where [...]

Thoughts on Moons and Moms and Moods

Ah, the moon.
Some would say the moon is what keeps lovers together, two can look upon it miles and miles apart, and yet it’s the same for both.
Peoples of all kinds have used the moon to mark the passage of time throughout the world, just look at the Chinese lunar calendar, or any of the [...]

Freedom of Speech,but No Freedom from Consequence

Like any blogging keener, I was thrilled when I had the chance to be interviewed for a shitty little online thingie, whoring my blogsa couple years back, maybe even three. Somehow, like the ignorant little blogger I was, I blurted my full name out, and the fucking twit who interviewed me somehow failed to grasp [...]

Now You, Too, Can Publish Your Relationship Obit

For some reason, there’s a dozen stories I’m interested on commenting on, but I just can’t do it. February 15th is pretty much my least favourite day of the year and I just don’t want to go into it, though it has nothing to do with Valentine’s. The timing’s coincidental.
But finding this website, relationshipobit.com, was [...]

Tips for Men to Keep in Mind for Valentine’s Day Sex

As anyone who reads me regularly knows, there once was a time when I wrote occasionally about sex. It’s always been occasional, folks. But there’s been a drought for more than a year, in more ways than one, and no such writing has come your way…
Until now. But… I’m rusty. Please lower your expectations, and [...]

Oh, Lord, What Have I Done? Groan, Groan, and Double-Groan

Welcome to my continuing madhouse. Instead of wrapping everything up this weekend, I’ve pretty much undone everything with one weird decision. I’d planned to sell an antique sideboard of mine but my ad only got one response, a woman who’s restoring a 100-year-old hotel wants to trade for it, and offered me several items.
Hey, I’m [...]

Acupuncture Meets Baby-Making Science

Some studies are finding that using acupuncture will help increase a woman’s chances of conceiving when combined with in vitro fertilization methods. Acupuncture’s awesome. Here’s the BBC article about this.

My Annual Anti-Valentine’s Day Posting

Valentine’s Day. A cruel joke, it would seem.
A day for lovers set smack-dab in the middle of February… the month where everyone’s just hangin’ on by a thread, awaiting the reprieve to come with spring. The month where most of us are slightly looser cannons than we’d normally be. A month filled with terse exchanges, [...]

The State of the Steff:Methods for the Madness of Change

My getting my shit together continues. Each day, something else is getting dealth with this week, and it feels pretty good to be making things happen rather than having things happen.
[Shrug] We all go off our paths sometimes and I don’t know how I got so far off mine, but it’s nice to be ending [...]

A Little Politics on the Eve of the Much-Hyped Super Tuesday

I get American politics, but I don’t get American politics. I mean, it just seems like it’s so much work to be democratic in the USA. (I mean small-D democratic, not big D.)
You people have to vote all the goddamned time. Tomorrow, here we go again, another big American vote. Jesus Christ. How about voting [...]

At The End of It All

I’m almost truly at a loss for words. I’m on the verge of great emotion, and I don’t really know what to make of it.
I’m also on the verge of a fresh new hell, a work week, so I don’t know if I’ll properly get to resolve these feelings any time soon.
But let’s at least [...]

Can We Move On? Stupid, Stupid Media

I don’t get into the whole cult of celebrity thing much because I think we give them a little too much attention. They’re doing a job. When the cameras shut off, leave ‘em alone. Those are my thoughts.
But I’m gonna comment on two things.
One: Ohmigod, no, Heath Ledger went to a drug party? GASP. I [...]