Category Archives: Romance

Sep
09
2009

Dating Options 101: Whatchagot

I had too much wine on Saturday night, wrote this. Didn’t publish it for fear I might’ve said too much. In vino veritas and all. So here’s the version you see. :)
I’m being antisocial. Again. I’m at that point where people are draining me, so I know I need my time to myself.
Some guy’s aggressively [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Also posted in Dating, Humour, Journalling, Specifically Steff | Tagged , , , , , , , | Comments (2)
Apr
20
2009

Of Walls, Waits, and Wistfulness

It was a warm and spring-like evening when our heroine sat tapping away at her keyboard, clad in unsightly short shorts and a 15-year-old concert t-shirt that never would live to see the streets again.
Tom Waits wailed in his gravelly splendour as a breeze softly batted the bamboo blinds. She peered over the rim of [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Also posted in Dating, Lust & Longing, Sex, Specifically Steff, Twitter | Tagged , , , , , | Comments (3)
Mar
12
2009

Arousing — Er, Awaking the Beast

I’m at my breaking point, I suspect. My resolve isn’t very resolved anymore.
I have this incredibly awesome gift most people would KILL for. When I’m not sexually involved, I can flip my libido off like a lightswitch. It’s why I’m so content to not date. Because dating just toys with my resolve. Once I’m on [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Also posted in Being single, Dating, Foreplay & Arousing, Humour, Hygiene & Health, Sex, Specifically Steff | Tagged , , , , , , , , | Comments (4)
Mar
09
2009

The Unpredictability of the Wildcard

It’s a full moon tonight and I had a bit of a full moon today.
A face from the past came ’round. Leaves me with some heavy thinking to do. When the past comes back, it’s for one of two reasons. To either teach you not to go there. Or to prompt you to go there.
I [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Also posted in Being single, Dating, Dimestore Philosophy, Psychology & Moods, Specifically Steff | Tagged , , , , , , | Comments (4)
Oct
29
2008

Stupid Over Love: The Human Condition

If there’s anything that’ll make me sick of Twitter in a hurry, it’s the endless drama regarding relationships and people’s moods. Some days, life’s too short.
That’s not to say that I don’t get it when people need to vent. Oh, do I. I get it.
Last night someone complained on Twitter, “Oh, I hate when I [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Also posted in Being single, Dating, Dimestore Philosophy, History, Lust & Longing, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Society, Twitter | Tagged , , , , , , , | Comments (1)
Sep
28
2008

Is it Possible?: Sex in the White House? Without Infidelity?

Something I absolutely love about the Obamas is the intensity of their attraction to each other. It’s so obvious. He lights up when he sees her. She totally adores him. But it’s bigger than that.
Probably the best footage I’ve ever seen that represents their relationship was this footage shot behind the scenes while they both [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Also posted in Best of Steff, General, Marriage & Other Commitments, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Politics, Society | Tagged , , , , | Comments (4)
Oct
19
2005

Decoding Feminine Desire: Yeah, Right

Okay, so supposedly you’re all here ‘cos this girl knows her shit, right?
I gotta tell you, though, I’m stumped. Seems a reader who simply goes by “Regular” wants to know how a man can then get his woman all riled in response to the posting below this one, A Few Ways To Get Your Man [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Also posted in Advice, Dating, Foreplay & Arousing, Lust & Longing, Men's Department, Questions From Readers, Sex | Tagged , | Comments (15)
Oct
18
2005

A few ways to get your man rock hard

Send him a very, very dirty note. He must receive the note when he’s not in your presence and can’t be for several hours. If you know his company isn’t too strict on emails received at the office, or he has a public email client like gmail or hotmail, then send him an email. If [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Also posted in Dating, Foreplay & Arousing, Sex | Tagged , | Comments (20)
Aug
14
2005

The Fine Art of Massage

For me, one of the most passionate things I can do for a man is a massage, and if he does it right, likewise.
I take massages very, very seriously. A great massage takes you to a different place. Paying for a massage is one thing, but receiving one from a lover fills me with raw [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Also posted in How To Guides, Massage | Tagged , , , , | Comments (22)