Most places you look and read will have you believe that everyone who’s single dates all the time. Really? My friends and I have missed that memo.
So it’s easy to feel like you’re a loser when you’re the one who’s totally current on what’s happening on all your favourite tv shows, since you’re the one [...]
The BUY STEFF A LAPTOP fund!
Wouldn't it be nice if I wrote more?
I'll need a laptop then.
Any donations to PayPal will
be saved for a shiny computer. Thanks!
BlogAds are good for you.
-
Pages
-
Tags
2010 adversity Advice back pain biographical change changing your life changing yourself cunnilingus cunting linguist Dating drinking election 2008 Erotica existentialism fear feminism getting her off health how to Humour life Masturbation mccain moving on obama Oral Sex Palin philosophy q&a Questions From Readers rant rehabbing self-esteem Sex sex in public places stupid people success sugasm teasing Twitter Vancouver weight loss weightloss writing -
Recent Posts
-
Archives
- March 2010
- February 2010
- January 2010
- December 2009
- November 2009
- October 2009
- September 2009
- August 2009
- July 2009
- June 2009
- May 2009
- April 2009
- March 2009
- February 2009
- January 2009
- December 2008
- November 2008
- October 2008
- September 2008
- August 2008
- July 2008
- June 2008
- May 2008
- April 2008
- March 2008
- February 2008
- January 2008
- December 2007
- November 2007
- October 2007
- September 2007
- August 2007
- July 2007
- June 2007
- May 2007
- April 2007
- March 2007
- February 2007
- January 2007
- December 2006
- November 2006
- October 2006
- September 2006
- August 2006
- July 2006
- June 2006
- May 2006
- April 2006
- March 2006
- February 2006
- January 2006
- December 2005
- November 2005
- October 2005
- September 2005
- August 2005
- July 2005
-
OH, the things I say!
- I don't mean that arrogantly, but, seriously, I DON'T have the time to keep tabs on more than the few people who are offline now, y'know? 2 hrs ago
- Oh, you're leaving Facebook but look forward to hearing from everyone? The reason we're ON Facebook is 'cos we ain't got the time, honey. 2 hrs ago
- NEW POSTING: Of Monsters and Writers and Closets, OH MY. More thoughts on writing. http://goo.gl/6BZt 4 hrs ago
- If you've never tried doing a samurai-type battle cry in the morning, you really should. Beats the shit out of yawning. 7 hrs ago
- I have entered the sucking zone in writing and know to stop when I'm ahead. It's time to make some eggs, chill an hour, then head to work. 7 hrs ago
- Writing a memoir will be best therapy ever. Stunned at oddly small-yet-important moments I've written of this week, after years of ignoring. 7 hrs ago
- HATE: Having a coughing fit right before a sneezing fit, with that 10 seconds of limbo where your head/lungs don't know WHAT to do. 8 hrs ago
- If you think you want to write, or do write & don't understand why it's not EASIER, then read Anne Lamott's Bird by Bird. 8 hrs ago
- I finally got this motherfucking printer working! And it's my friday! And I had eight hours sleep! I WIN! I WIN! I WIN! 8 hrs ago
- Great, Twitter. Brilliant plan. Install a memory hog kinda-pointless "hover" app right before one of the biggest Twitter geek conventions. 18 hrs ago
- When will Twitter learn? Every time they "upgrade" features, major crashes happen. So, the biggest hog YET they install RIGHT before SxSW? 18 hrs ago
- Time to make a monster salad. Trying to get back on page with eating a variety of healthy good things again. 20 hrs ago
- More updates...
Posting tweet...
Powered by Twitter Tools
-
Pages
-
Categories
- adhd
- Advice
- AIDS & STDs
- Autobiographical
- Battle of the Comments
- Being me
- Being single
- Best of Steff
- Bondage
- Books
- casual sex
- censorship
- Communication
- Consumerism
- Current Events
- Dating
- Dimestore Philosophy
- Drugs
- dysfunction
- Eating Disorder
- Education
- Erotica
- Ethics
- Etiquette
- existentialism
- feminism
- Fiction
- fitness
- Food & Recipes
- Foreplay & Arousing
- Gay or Straight?
- General
- History
- Hollywood
- How To Guides
- Humour
- Hygiene & Health
- Journalling
- keeping it real
- Laws
- Life 101
- Lifestyle
- Loving and Knowing Yourself
- Lust & Longing
- MacGyvery Sex Aids & Props
- Marriage & Other Commitments
- Massage
- Masturbation
- Men's Department
- Modern Feminism
- Opinion (Editorial & Commentary)
- Oral Sex
- Orgasm Trouble
- PMS
- Politics
- Product Reviews
- Psychology & Moods
- Questions From Readers
- Religion
- Romance
- Self-Love & Self-Esteem
- Sex
- Sex Toy Reviews
- Sex Toys & Aids
- Sexism
- sexuality
- Society
- Specifically Steff
- Steff Rants
- sugasm
- Uncategorized
- Video Clips
- Viginity
- weight loss
- Women's Department
- writing
-
Blogroll
- Curvaceous Dee
- Ellie Lumpesse: Pretentious Perv
- Max Lagos: Erotica Writer
- Natt Nighty
- Sugarbutch Chronicles
- Sweltering Celt
- The Adventures of Homeless Girl
- The Butterfly Temptress
- The Vampire Wars
- This Could Be Dangerous [Lily]
- Thursday’s Child Has Far to Go
- Unspeakable Axe
- Urban Gypsy
- Writing Dirty
-
Recent Comments
- @whatlolawants on Of Monsters and Writers and Closets, OH MY
- Kyle on Social Media: What Not To Do 101
- Terri on Further Thoughts Against Olympics “Protesters”
- Terri on Further Thoughts Against Olympics “Protesters”
- RetroSteff: Why 40% of Women Don’t Masturbate | Smut & Steff on Why 40% of Women Don’t Masturbate
-
Recent Posts
-
RSS Links
-
-
Smut & Steff Feeds
"when you're slapped,
you'll take it.
and like it."
humprey bogart as "sam spade"
in the maltese falcon
when making peter lorre
his bitch.
Subscribe to Smut & Steff by Email
Rant: Tired of Defending a "Party of One"
As a blogger, nothing gets me going better than comments. It’s when people comment that we know we’ve said something not only worth reading, but worth considering, and sometimes even worth arguing.
Yesterday’s posting inspired a bit of a discussion between a couple of readers, so I’ll excerpt those comments here:
Anon: “And that’s the secret about [...]