ANONYMOUS ASKS: What’s a girl to do when her new boyfriend is VERY conservative and she wants to shake things up? Suggestions? This guy is NOT experienced but he’s really adorable.
STEFF ANSWERS: Keeping in mind that conservative attitudes about sex are usually resulting from ignorance or fear, I think you gotta proceed slowly.
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- You know what? Even at the CEREMONY last night they said the ceremony aired at 2pm today! I'd like to have seen what I missed at the start. 45 mins ago
- What an insult to our athletes -- EVERY piece of advertising for the Paralympics opening said it was airing at 2. It started 15-30min early. 49 mins ago
- Left THE most PISSED OFF phone message ever for @CTVOlympics. Yeah, I'm that pissed that I actually looked for a fucking phone number. 50 mins ago
- Clearly you don't think we value our Paralympics athletes, @CTVOlympics, or you'd not have been so half-assed with this. Surprise. We care. 55 mins ago
- Fuck you, @CTVOlympics, for publishing the start-time of the Paralympics opening ceremony as 2pm, then starting it early. You're assholes. 57 mins ago
- Made ANOTHER batch of candy & think I rocked it. I think the first batch, I misread my new thermometer. Every degree counts in candymaking! 2 hrs ago
- What bothers me isn't really the failing -- shit happens -- but it's that I don't know *why* it failed. That's frustrating. 3 hrs ago
- Boo! I just spent the last 35 minutes making what appears to be a batch of candy-fail. Hmph. Won't know for sure for an hour. 3 hrs ago
- They're making paella on this cooking show, & show the farm the snails are raised on... Free-range snails that feed on fresh thyme? Crazy. 4 hrs ago
- So this pack of 50%-less-salt bacon was on sale at half-off. "Okay, I'll bite." So, I buy it, cook it, first taste: "Hmph. Needs salt." 4 hrs ago
- Walking past that food store now. He never even TRIED to have a sale & move stuff out. Don't ruin your business thru pride, man. Geez. 5 hrs ago
- Looks like the Fine Foods shop in my hood is closing down. Sad. But he nickel and dimed me on debit charges. People don't like that crap. 5 hrs ago
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