Tag Archives: Oral Sex

Aug
15
2008

A Frank Posting about Giving Head

Hey, wow! Just noticed as I was adding the comments to my archive postings on how to give GREAT head [starts here] that it was three years ago today I published that posting that defined this blog. Aww! Let’s hear it for nostalgia.
So, it’s fitting then, we should have a little chat about blowjobs today. [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Posted in Best of Steff, Dating, Etiquette, Foreplay & Arousing, Men's Department, Modern Feminism, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Oral Sex, Specifically Steff, casual sex | Also tagged , , , , , | Comments (6)
Jun
19
2008

On Oral, A Reader Asks: Can I Really Tease Her For More Than An Hour?

some days are clean slates, just waiting for some input, a spark, a suggestion. some days are lazy days of slack, and on such a day, it’s nice to receive a great email from a snazzy reader, especially when it’s something worth spending a little time writing on. if you have something you think i [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Posted in Advice, Best of Steff, Foreplay & Arousing, Gay or Straight?, How To Guides, Men's Department, Oral Sex, Questions From Readers, Sex, Women's Department | Also tagged , , , , | Comments (5)
Sep
04
2005

The Man’s Guide to Cunnilingus: Part 4

This is part four in my opus on cunnilingus.
Part one is here, part two is here, and part three is here.
Tackling a lover orally can be quite different for the two sexes, not just for the obvious reasons.
As far as I’ve been able to discern, sucking dick’s the same no matter how you approach it. [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Posted in Advice, How To Guides, Men's Department, Oral Sex, Sex, Women's Department | Also tagged , , , | Comments (21)
Aug
30
2005

The Man’s Guide to Cunnilingus Pt. 3

If you’re new to this discussion, read Part One here, Part One-B here, and Part Two here.
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We left off with me urging you to get in touch with your inner bastard and enter her for two or three teasing, taunting thrusts before leaving her wanting more.
That done, feel free to grin mischeviously and tell her [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Posted in Advice, How To Guides, Men's Department, Oral Sex, Questions From Readers, Sex, Women's Department | Also tagged , , , | Comments (29)
Aug
28
2005

The Man’s Guide to Cunnilingus Pt. 2

I’m assuming you’ve read part one of this? As a preamble to part two, I’d like to get you to read the scene found below from the show Friends. The point is pretty basic: Almost every chick has had the experience where a guy just has no clue how many erogenous zones we have — [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Posted in Advice, How To Guides, Men's Department, Oral Sex, Questions From Readers, Sex, Uncategorized, Women's Department | Also tagged , , , | Comments (24)
Aug
28
2005

The Sex Tips Scene from "Friends"

When this scene originally aired nearly a decade ago, I howled with laughter. I thought it was as true then as it is now, that guys fail to realize just how goddamned much of our bodies can be tagged as erogenous zones. This was from early in the fourth season. I think it’s relevant to [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Posted in Advice, General, How To Guides, Men's Department, Oral Sex, Sex, Women's Department | Also tagged , , , | Comments (5)
Aug
27
2005

The Man’s Guide to Cunnilingus: Pt. 1

I had an anonymous request to do a companion guide for my “Good Girl’s Guide to Giving Great Head,” so here we go.
I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again. Oral sex is best when it’s a long, dedicated endeavour. If you want a quickie, then fuck and be done with it. If you [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Posted in Advice, How To Guides, Men's Department, Oral Sex, Questions From Readers, Sex, Women's Department | Also tagged , , , | Comments (37)
Aug
16
2005

The Good Girl’s Guide to Giving GREAT Head Pt. 2

When we last left off, I was recapping the wonders of the Creamsicle move. Trusty, classic, and effective. Here are the remaining fave moves of mine. Of course, you can mix’n’match all the moves and shake them up, and you can think outside the box and bring in other techniques. There’s really only one no-no [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Posted in How To Guides, Oral Sex, Women's Department | Also tagged , , | Comments (17)
Aug
16
2005

The Good Girl’s Guide to Giving GREAT Head Pt. 1

I’m a perfectionist. This has served me well in many areas of my life, say, at work or in the kitchen. Or, as it happens, in the bedroom.
I like to think of oral sex as a fine art. I think it’s the most sensual, supposedly selfless thing you can do for a lover.
Now, I say [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Posted in How To Guides, Oral Sex, Women's Department | Also tagged , , | Comments (18)
Jul
29
2005

To Shave, or Not to Shave?

That is the question.
My answer is, absolutely. I just spent some quality time taking care of nature’s overgrowth before a long hot soak in the tub with a little oil. It feels great.
Depubing your privates goes a long way to improving sex. Personally, not only does a guy’s facial stubble enhance my oral experience, but [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Posted in Hygiene & Health, Oral Sex | Also tagged , , , | Comments (18)