Tag Archives: Questions From Readers

Oct
06
2005

Dear Reader: Go Fuck Yourself

A reader wrote:
Late at night your long-time female partner believes you are alseep and commences to masturbate right there beside you in the cot.
The unmistakable sound of her arousal soon has e breathing heavy, but she’s concentrating so hard she thinks it is snoring coming from my side of the bed.
What should a man [...]

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Sep
29
2005

Getting Stiffed By the Stiffy & Happy Birthday to Me

I’m 32 today, folks. That being the case, I’m a little busy being busy and birthdayish for the next couple of days. YAY me.
I wrote this posting over on NYHotties for you kids to read in answer to LabBoy’s question about the “five-minute” rule — you know, how guys tend to blow their wad the [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Posted in Advice, Dating, How To Guides, Men's Department, Orgasm Trouble, Questions From Readers, Sex, Sex Toys & Aids, dysfunction | Also tagged , , | Comments (10)
Sep
24
2005

You asked? Cock Rings

Chelsea Girl requested that I address the issue of cock rings. So, here goes.
Once upon a time, in Middle Earth, a Hobbit named Frodo went on a quest to destroy the One Ring that would rule them all… Err. Well. Okay, different ring.
A cock ring is a blood-flow restrictor for the penis. Cock rings are [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Posted in Advice, How To Guides, Men's Department, Questions From Readers, Sex, Sex Toys & Aids | Also tagged , , | Comments (14)
Sep
22
2005

Harrass this, you PC bastards

When I recently whored myself for more topics, Grover Flanagan asked this:
Ooh! Ooh! I’ve got one! A new girl just started at work. She’s either as tall or just a bit taller than I am, cute as hell, and built like a brick house. (what a winning hand!) I’ve introduced myself, but have no idea [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Posted in Advice, Dating, Laws, Questions From Readers | Also tagged , , | Comments (7)
Sep
10
2005

Reader Conundrum: The 30+ Year-Old Virgin

I had an email from a woman who wanted to remain anonymous.

“So how is the world with a virgin on the other side of 30? How virgin you may ask? Too! I haven’t even had a kiss since highschool so…. Am I going to end up a lost cause? I don’t even know how to [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Posted in Advice, Dating, Questions From Readers, Sex, Viginity | Also tagged , , | Comments (13)
Sep
01
2005

The Young Woman’s Guide to Getting Over Herself

This was a posting over at www.NYHotties.com by yours truly. The blog owner there is Alexa, so this was a letter sent to Alexa, and Alexa asked me to answer it for her:
Hi, I’m Steff, and I’ll be your cruise director tonight.
I’m a Canadian girl, born & raised in Vancouver, and I run a [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Posted in Advice, How To Guides, Masturbation, Orgasm Trouble, Questions From Readers, Sex, Women's Department | Also tagged , , | Comments (2)
Aug
31
2005

DISCUSSION: Mr. Softee and the Minute-Man

A lovely blog-girlie I know in NYC is caught in a dilemma.
There’s a boy she likes. (They’re in their mid-20s.) Recently, they got to playing — making out hot and heavy for nearly an hour on the sofa. She was a little baffled to find he wasn’t getting hard, despite the heat. Being the caring, [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Posted in Advice, Men's Department, Questions From Readers, Sex, Women's Department | Also tagged , | Comments (21)
Aug
24
2005

Sexual Q&A: What’s so hot about that?

A male reader emailed me to ask me what it is that men find so hot about the stockings-’n-panties look. I said, “Can’t help you! I’m a girl!”
So, boys, what’s the deal? Does it get you riled, too? Can you pinpoint why?
Me, if I was a guy, it’d likely be the whole Meg Ryan panties’n’tank [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Posted in General, Questions From Readers | Comments (22)
Aug
22
2005

Sexual Q&A: It’s a gusher! Ejaculation ethics

This is a MONSTER post. It’s a monster topic. I’m hoping to provoke a lot of discussion and will leave this front and centre for a couple days.
Recently, an anonymous poster asked about the notion of “facials.” IE: Ejaculating on a lover’s face during the act.
I had a conversation with my friend GayBoy about this [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Posted in Ethics, Hygiene & Health, Men's Department, Questions From Readers, Sex, Women's Department | Also tagged , , , | Comments (50)
Aug
20
2005

Sexual Q& A: Water, Anyone?

A lovely female reader emailed me and asked me to keep her anonymous, but wanted to know the truth behind sex in the water. Does it enhance the experience?
STEFF RESPONDS:
I don’t know. I’ve never really gone there. I’ve had guys crash my bath and the feeble attempts at sex were laughable, since the tubs [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Posted in Advice, Hygiene & Health, Questions From Readers, Women's Department | Also tagged , , | Comments (15)
Aug
18
2005

Sexual Q & A: Threesomes

Tonight’s topic? Menage a trois.
HERMES ASKS: Threesomes?

STEFF ANSWERS:
Oh, my. I’ve never really given threesomes a lot of thought. No guy I’ve been with has ever brought the topic up or asked if I’d be willing. So, I’m going to just run with my train of thought here. Bear with me.
So, have I? No.
Would I? I [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Posted in Questions From Readers, Sex | Also tagged , | Comments (19)