Tag Archives: Sex

Feb
09
2010

Valentine’s Day: All My Thoughts

Valentine’s day looms and I’ve deftly avoided the topic by not posting new stuff lately. Brilliant!
But I guess it’s time for my annual rant against the Big Machine and the perpetuation of the belief that, hey, if it’s love, it’s worth going broke for.
I know men buy gifts because they feel obligated. I know women [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Posted in Dimestore Philosophy, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Society, Steff Rants, keeping it real | Also tagged , , , , , , , , , | Comments (0)
Oct
12
2009

Damn Right, It Feels Good

I’ve been remiss in mentioning a book the publishers Rodale sent to me at the end of the summer. I usually turn down offers of free products because I hate feeling obligated when it comes to writing reviews afterward, but when the rep told me what Debby Herbenick’s book, Because it Feels Good: A Woman’s [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Posted in Advice, Books, Education, Product Reviews, Sex, Women's Department | Also tagged , , , , | Comments (0)
Mar
12
2009

Arousing — Er, Awaking the Beast

I’m at my breaking point, I suspect. My resolve isn’t very resolved anymore.
I have this incredibly awesome gift most people would KILL for. When I’m not sexually involved, I can flip my libido off like a lightswitch. It’s why I’m so content to not date. Because dating just toys with my resolve. Once I’m on [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Posted in Being single, Dating, Foreplay & Arousing, Humour, Hygiene & Health, Romance, Sex, Specifically Steff | Also tagged , , , , , , , | Comments (4)
Mar
03
2009

Are You Askin’ Or Tellin’?

I had a private chat with chick on Twitter recently, and we spoke of men who’ve made rather over-the-top “requests” before first meetings with us.
Well, with her. I’ve never actually followed through with plans with any of those guys. But that’s how I roll. My Spidey senses are on the job 24/7.
I’ve been “dating” for [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Posted in Advice, Dating, General, Lifestyle, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Psychology & Moods, Sex, Specifically Steff | Also tagged , , , , , , , , , | Comments (3)
Jan
21
2009

7 More Things You Maybe Didn’t Know About Me

I got tagged for this meme for a second time, this time by JamieLD. The first time was here. And why not just brush it off and say “But I did it already?” Huh? Why?
Well, I’ll tell you. ‘Cos, like, there ARE 14 things about me you don’t know. How do ya like them apples? [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Posted in Best of Steff, Humour, Journalling, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Specifically Steff, Twitter | Also tagged , , , , , , , , , , | Comments (3)
Dec
23
2008

Thoughts On Community: In With the Out Crowd

It’s funny, this whole “sex blogger community” thing. I’m all for it, but I don’t feel part of it at all. Not because people don’t include me, they do. It’s just… it’s complicated.
I’ve always felt this way, but in the recent months my feelings have been given a boost and now I feel sort of [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Posted in Being single, Dating, Journalling, Loving and Knowing Yourself, Society, Specifically Steff, Twitter | Also tagged , , | Comments (2)
Oct
17
2008

Of Rainy Days, Write Nights, And Kissing Boys

Oh! The rain is pounding the streets as car tires slap-slap-slap their way over the busy streets near my home. I’ve hit bottom on my coffee mug and should be zapping to the door, but first need to get the funk out with a long hot shower.
I’m bussing in the downpour. Tonight I’ll come home [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Posted in Dating, Foreplay & Arousing, General, Journalling, PMS, Specifically Steff | Also tagged , , , , , | Comments (0)
Sep
09
2008

Hi, I’m Steff, I’ll be Your Blogger. Some Ideas I’m Considering… & Sugasm

So, I suck. I’m totally behind the times with Sugasm, and it would seem I was the top pick in week 144. Cool. To anyone who voted, thanks so much. :)
We’ll get back to that later.
I’m kind of in this whirlwind with a mental list of a thousands things to write about and I just [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Posted in General, Journalling, Specifically Steff | Also tagged , , , , , | Comments (2)
Aug
17
2008

Sex & Food: Together Again?

I’m a foodie. Yes, I am.
And I got to tell ya, he prospect of regular sex has begun to loom, and this excites me considerably. Sets me all a-flutter, truth be told. But, you know, for all those strenuous hours of fun that potentially loom, one requires fuel. Enter food.
So I’m not sure what excites [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Posted in Best of Steff, Dating, Food & Recipes, Foreplay & Arousing, Journalling, Lust & Longing, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Sex, Specifically Steff | Also tagged , , , , , , | Comments (6)
Aug
15
2008

A Frank Posting about Giving Head

Hey, wow! Just noticed as I was adding the comments to my archive postings on how to give GREAT head [starts here] that it was three years ago today I published that posting that defined this blog. Aww! Let’s hear it for nostalgia.
So, it’s fitting then, we should have a little chat about blowjobs today. [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Posted in Best of Steff, Dating, Etiquette, Foreplay & Arousing, Men's Department, Modern Feminism, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Oral Sex, Specifically Steff, casual sex | Also tagged , , , , , | Comments (6)
Oct
10
2005

A bedtime story

Oh, I love irony.
Tonight, I had this date lined up with this guy, who I was totally apprehensive about. He was one of these guys who grills you about everything, questions everything, and was pretty antagonistic. I thought, “Oh, maybe it’ll mellow when I meet him.”
First, he bails on me. So, against my better judgment, [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Posted in Dating, Etiquette, Humour, Sex | Also tagged , , | Comments (1)
Sep
28
2005

I Don’t Wanna Be Your Dog

My latest raunchy rant can be found over at Alexa’s sizzling site, NYHotties.com, where I’ll be a frequent contributor for awhile.
Here’s the link if you wanna read the comments. Here’s the posting in full, though:
I’m sorry, Iggy, but it’s true.
This one goes out to the porn school boys. Yeah. You know who you are. The [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Posted in Dating, Lust & Longing, Men's Department, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Sex, Steff Rants, Women's Department | Also tagged , , , | Comments (2)
Aug
03
2005

Kissy-Kissy

Sleep unable to find me, I lie naked under my sheets, a hand across my breasts, the other stretched atop my thigh.
The dim streetlight filters through my cotton bedroom shades and its shadows dancing on my ceiling are all I see.
For I know that when I close my eyes again, you’ll flood back in front [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Posted in Erotica | Also tagged , , , | Comments (10)
Aug
02
2005

"Shut up and fuck me"

[Ed. Note: It's three years later and my thoughts on sounds during sex have drastically changed. Sure, I lapse into silence, but I consider sound a very important way of letting a lover know what's working and what could use some work.]
I’ve been very heavy on the description in the Saga of J., but seemingly [...]

By A Scribe Called Steff | Posted in Communication, General, Sex | Also tagged , , , | Comments (11)