Despite stupidity rearing its head last night in the form of yet another asshole comment by yet another asshole, and the rise of a would-be stalker, for the time being I’m going to hold off on comment moderation despite my first instinct to start regulating them.
Why? Well, for starters, I really love the dialogue that [...]
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- Well, that's all my fuckin' weekend wrote. I'm outtie. Bring on the suck -- I mean, bring on Monday. Rah, rah. Joy, joy. [Weep] 5 hrs ago
- Asked if he woulda risked his life to fight the final round vs Ali in Thrilla in Manila, WITHOUT A BEAT, Joe Frazier said simply, "Yes." 6 hrs ago
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- I've had 2 beers in my fridge for 10 days, and finally decided to get 'em drunk up tonight. Um, tastes filling, is filling. Fuck "Lite". 9 hrs ago
- I've come to it late, but CBC Newsworld is airing Thriller in Manila, a doc on Ali / Foreman / et al. COOL. Tuning in for the last 60+ min. 9 hrs ago
- Made some kinda crazy rice I thought was long-grain wild rice. It's a bit of a fail for my stirfry. Trying to salvage it with egg noodles. 10 hrs ago
- Got sucked into the dead-celebrity thing. They have a Two Coreys marathon on ch48. I'd never seen it before. Had no idea it was shot in Van. 10 hrs ago
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- Okay, I'm going to explode if I attempt to write anything else. 2 shorts but a monster timeline. Pretty accomplished. Pity about the house. 12 hrs ago
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So Why The Hell Do I Write About Sex Anyhow?
I weighed myself this morning, and I’m officially down FORTY-SEVEN pounds. Whoop, there it went! But… I’m only half-way to my goal of losing 100 pounds. And that’s okay. I promised myself I’d do it slowly and in a sustainable way, and I am.
Let’s talk about wanker’s comment again (on this post), which isn’t worth [...]